things i think about thine.

OK
i reckon that in order to make urself feel better, u should stop forming assumptions!
i think that forming assumptions about a particular thing, will make things worse for you if ur assumption is false.

ok example: "OMG I THINK.... SHE THINKGS IM ANNOYING"

so in this case, if you stay away from them, and they don't think ur annoying. then ur assumption is just making things worse for you.

so if u do start assuming, counter a bit of the assumption with something else in ur head! like "CHILLAX, im just thinking too much maybe i should stop thinking too much, making mountains out of molehillsss...(is that the right expresssionnn hehe)"

if you assumption is correct and hypothetically, she does think your annoying, then kindof stopping that assumption will also make life easier for you. like watching ur annoying actions and words yet not completely staying away from them.

hope this made sense. explaining is HARDDD. AND THIS IS HYPOTHETICALL

ALSO, funfact1 i don't dislike anyone and as much as i complain about somethinig, i reallly believe in the best of them. or so i think. i could always be wrong tho.

ALSO, funfact2. i dislike being called annoying. (Excluding mah sistah, she's an exception) hehe


and i also think this in regards to people who people find <insert negative adjective>
1. they know they are emitting this negative image but can't exactly do anything bout it without some sort of embarassing consequence or something and they don't like this 'image' but it just happens to naturally radiate from them.
2. they don't know they're emitting a negative image, so it looks like they don't care, even tho they would care if they knew about it.